The saying “Attitude Determines Altitude” means that the way you think and act in life can greatly affect how successful you are.
When it is used for driving, it means something a little different. When it comes to driving, “Attitude Determines Altitude” means that your mindset and approach greatly influence your success and safety.
How you act and behave while driving can affect how safe and successful you are on the road. Having a good attitude and being responsible can make driving safer and more successful. But if you have a bad attitude or don’t care, it can make driving riskier and more likely to have accidents, get tickets, or have bad things happen.
Driving safely is all about attitude. In fact, all I can really teach you is attitude. Think about it—if you’ve been driving for a while, you know most all the rules—OK, so maybe you do need a refresher occasionally—and you know how to drive “defensively.” You may not think you do—but you do. You learn by surviving to drive another day. What we often lose sight of are the dangers of driving—it is such a normal part of our lives that we don’t consciously think about how dangerous it really is. Thinking about this occasionally is a good thing.
Driving conflicts have been with us since the beginning. “In Ohio in 1895, there were only TWO motorcars. Guess what happened?” An old photo actually showed the two horseless carriages on a collision course to a “T” intersection, both (male) drivers jabbering merrily to a carload of female passengers, and neither one looking anywhere close to the direction they were speeding! I’m not sure if that very old joke is based in truth or not, but if you have driven in this country you KNOW it could be! If you drive, you will be involved in conflicts. You can’t totally control them, but you can control how you react to them. What makes the difference, and what you need to remain safe in today’s traffic circus, is to keep a calm, positive, and detached attitude. This is something you can LEARN to do.
I can tell you from experience, that most of the tickets or mishaps I’ve ever had happened when I was angry or upset (there’ve been a few). When your emotions are running high, your judgment can fail you, and you may not notice otherwise apparent, even obvious, dangers. If you find yourself driving while emotionally stressed or upset, it is important that you pull over, take a few deep breaths, and calm down, before something happens that would be a cause for further regret.
Since we all make mistakes in our driving, it goes without saying that at any given moment, other drivers are doing exactly that—making mistakes, not intentionally malicious moves. When other drivers do something wrong, shouldn’t our reaction be to let it slide, and chalk it up to unintentional human error, the same as we hope they’d do for us?
Remember these words: “It doesn’t matter.” When other drivers make mistakes or are rude (even intentionally), what do you gain by letting it affect your attitude or behavior? It doesn’t matter. In ten minutes, you won’t even remember that it happened. Since we are all human, we can’t be perfect all the time. Don’t let the error the other driver commits be the reason you lose control (one way or another) and have a collision, or worse. Many collisions occur when a driver is mad, upset, stressed, or distracted in some way. Try to keep your attitude rational, calm, and positive.
